Dating is the most beautiful thing. Two people fall in love at the same time and they decide to spend time and their life together. People crave for true love all their lives. However, there are a few things to keep in mind while dating the love of your life. Here’s a list of 10 do’s and don’ts that you must follow for a happy and healthy relationship.
1) Be punctual, don’t be late
Time is everything in all kinds of relationship. If you are fortunate enough to have a partner who loves you and care for you then it becomes your responsibility to give them a big share of your precious time. And talking of time, whenever you plan to meet your date, keep in mind that you be on time and don’t get late. This will give your partner a feeling that you don’t value their time and can lead to conflicts.
2) Talk about your present, not your ex
In a relationship, its very important that both people constantly talk to each other about their present day aspirations and the ways in which they can grow their relationship in a better way. Talking about your past relationship and constant ranting about how bad or good your relationship was would only make your partner feel inferior about his/her existence in your life.
3) Share your hobbies
The time that you spend together is most beautiful, make it even more special by knowing and sharing each other’s hobbies. Know about the interests you two have in common. Doing such activities together will keep your relationship interesting and everlasting
4) Remember important dates, don’t forget
Forgetting and missing out on important dates like birthdays and anniversaries is next to a deadly sin when you are in a relationship. Keep the memo of all important dates and make your loved one feel special by surprising them with gifts and getaways.
5) Be original, don’t pretend to be someone else
When you love someone and plan to spend your whole life with that person, pretending to be someone else never helps. Let them know about your darker sides as well, so when you both decide to date officially, it doesn’t become an issue for the other person.
6) Set a priority, don’t change it later
Relationship is all flowers and sparkles initially and gets boring with time. Set rules from the beginning and don’t change them later. If you make your partner a priority in your relationship then continue doing it, if there are other important things in life, make them clear in the beginning itself. This will give your relationship a beautiful bonding.
7) Communicate more, don’t make assumptions
Communication barrier always messes up relationships. If you have a doubt about your relationship or on your partner then you must talk to them. Silence won’t take you anywhere and you will end up making assumptions. To keep your relationship away from silly fights, talk as much as you can.
8) Surprise each other frequently, don’t be boring
Don’t let time fade your love away! Keep doing things that create the spark among you two. Frequent vacations to spend time with each other, give them surprises as you learn their favorite song or gift them their favorite pants. There are endless things you can do for your loved one keep the love alive.
9) Respect each other’s space
Being in love doesn’t mean that you to stick with your partner 24/7. Remember, even if you are together now, you’re individuals at the end of the day. Give your partner some space by not hanging out everywhere they go, and not intruding in between their “me” time. Also. this will allow them to miss you and your love will get deeper.
10) Love is unconditional, don’t define it seeing other’s life
Love is an eternal feeling, an emotion that can’t be compared. Don’t be a part of rat race while you follow perfect couple pages on social media. All couples have their different stories and path to be followed, don’t compare your love life with other couple; this will get you nothing but unnecessary complexes.
AUTHOR
Sheetal Ahuja is a freelance blogger and a social media enthusiast. Her interests include hanging out with friends, dining at restaurants, jogging, gym, blogging, reading and watching movies. She is currently an associate at archiesonline.com
1) Be punctual, don’t be late
Time is everything in all kinds of relationship. If you are fortunate enough to have a partner who loves you and care for you then it becomes your responsibility to give them a big share of your precious time. And talking of time, whenever you plan to meet your date, keep in mind that you be on time and don’t get late. This will give your partner a feeling that you don’t value their time and can lead to conflicts.
2) Talk about your present, not your ex
In a relationship, its very important that both people constantly talk to each other about their present day aspirations and the ways in which they can grow their relationship in a better way. Talking about your past relationship and constant ranting about how bad or good your relationship was would only make your partner feel inferior about his/her existence in your life.
3) Share your hobbies
The time that you spend together is most beautiful, make it even more special by knowing and sharing each other’s hobbies. Know about the interests you two have in common. Doing such activities together will keep your relationship interesting and everlasting
4) Remember important dates, don’t forget
Forgetting and missing out on important dates like birthdays and anniversaries is next to a deadly sin when you are in a relationship. Keep the memo of all important dates and make your loved one feel special by surprising them with gifts and getaways.
5) Be original, don’t pretend to be someone else
When you love someone and plan to spend your whole life with that person, pretending to be someone else never helps. Let them know about your darker sides as well, so when you both decide to date officially, it doesn’t become an issue for the other person.
6) Set a priority, don’t change it later
Relationship is all flowers and sparkles initially and gets boring with time. Set rules from the beginning and don’t change them later. If you make your partner a priority in your relationship then continue doing it, if there are other important things in life, make them clear in the beginning itself. This will give your relationship a beautiful bonding.
7) Communicate more, don’t make assumptions
Communication barrier always messes up relationships. If you have a doubt about your relationship or on your partner then you must talk to them. Silence won’t take you anywhere and you will end up making assumptions. To keep your relationship away from silly fights, talk as much as you can.
8) Surprise each other frequently, don’t be boring
Don’t let time fade your love away! Keep doing things that create the spark among you two. Frequent vacations to spend time with each other, give them surprises as you learn their favorite song or gift them their favorite pants. There are endless things you can do for your loved one keep the love alive.
9) Respect each other’s space
Being in love doesn’t mean that you to stick with your partner 24/7. Remember, even if you are together now, you’re individuals at the end of the day. Give your partner some space by not hanging out everywhere they go, and not intruding in between their “me” time. Also. this will allow them to miss you and your love will get deeper.
10) Love is unconditional, don’t define it seeing other’s life
Love is an eternal feeling, an emotion that can’t be compared. Don’t be a part of rat race while you follow perfect couple pages on social media. All couples have their different stories and path to be followed, don’t compare your love life with other couple; this will get you nothing but unnecessary complexes.
AUTHOR
Sheetal Ahuja is a freelance blogger and a social media enthusiast. Her interests include hanging out with friends, dining at restaurants, jogging, gym, blogging, reading and watching movies. She is currently an associate at archiesonline.com
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